Woah, I have no idea how I turned that into fanmail, nor do I apparently know how tumblr works all that well. I’m an awkward creep normally, so I will be an overt creep next time I see you out and about and…
recently i’ve had an i’m-missing-my-baby-love mental explosion of massive proportions. so i am posting this ridiculous recording that jeff & i did in his tiny shithole apartment like 2 or 3 years ago. thankfully i’m better at singing now, and he’s in london doing cool stuff (not thankfully for me). oh man.
Every time I see someone reblog my picture after they’ve removed my text (thereby removing my stories and experiences) I remind myself that that’s exactly how visibility and presentation work in the real world too so I really shouldn’t expect more from you Internet.
The most recent post with you in the target dress, what size is that? And what size are you at target and in general? This year I can't seem to find a SINGLE THING to wear, dress wise, from target. I'm a 22-24. Thanks! :D
that specific dress is XXL, as is most of what i get from target. occasionally an L or XL will slip in here or there, but XXL is usually what works for me (and for reference, i’m a 22-26).
The other night I was cooking dinner for my roommate
And while waiting for the water to boil I just casually checked the Okcupid app
And someone had answered “yes” to the question “are you disgusted by the extremely obese?”
Like, whatever, yes I know Okcupid is a fucked up place with awful…
Every story has multiple witnesses. A perspective from the other. Yet some people’s conception of self-sanity and reality relies on shutting their ears to the experience of others. Anyone with an interest in the truth acknowledges that the human experience is not static, and cannot be pinned down to one person’s subjective logic. Some would not force their understanding on those who do not have access to the full history, and degrade others in the process of self-definition.
“I feel most people’s sexuality is enormously complicated. That’s what it means to be human. Wouldn’t it be great if we honored that complexity rather than turn it into gossip or ridicule? Wouldn’t it be great if we accepted sexual diversity, in ourselves and others, without condemning it?”—
Many people in my life, and many of you who read the things I write about, have witnessed my tumultuous and ever persistent search for the perfect genderqueer name. This journey (or, transition, if you will) that I am on is about so much more than just gender for me. To me, this endeavour wouldn’t…
my desire to change names stems more from my need to separate myself from everything my family represents rather than a gender dissonance//acceptance within myself, but the sentiment is the same — erin/elton/maj is just more eloquent about their struggle than i am (one of the many reasons why i love them).